The Marriage Revival Accelerator
The last program you will need to take your marriage from "I think we should get a divorce" to "I can't imagine my life without you."
You are here because you are in a marriage that's so important to you, but is not fulfilling you. You know it can be better. You want more love, more connection, more friendship and less tension, less silence and less fighting.
Like most couples, you probably fall into one of two camps.
Either you've tried to fix your marriage by reading marriage books, googling solutions to your issues and talking more to your husband, but none of it helps.
And maybe you've even attempted marital therapy, but that didn't work and it left you feeling defeated and your husband cynical if "this stuff" works at all.
Or, you haven't tried anything yet because you don't actually know where to start. Figuring out what you need and who can help you is a daunting task in and of itself.
But one thing you know for sure, is that your marriage must get better soon, otherwise you don't know how long it will last.
I get it. Marriage is REALLY challenging. It's usually only relatively easy in the beginning, but as soon as life starts to unfold and responsibilities hit, marriage becomes more work.
All marriages, especially the good ones, take work. I don't buy into the "it shouldn't be this hard" or "if it's this much work, it's not meant to be" mentality. That's just simply not true.
So now you find yourselves out of options. And you're unsure what's next. But you are crystal clear that what you don't want, is this marriage to end in divorce. You love your husband and you love your family. You want this marriage to be as good as you knew it could be in your heart of hearts.
And this is exactly why I created the Marriage Revival Accelerator. I've seen too many couples struggle through either without help or worse, with the wrong kind of help.
You will get everything you need inside this program to repair what's been broken, nurture what's been neglected, and strengthen what you started with.
It is exactly what I know all my clients have needed. And it's what my husband I needed.
I know because we were there too. My husband and I faced a lot challenges, got the help we needed and now celebrating our 20th year together. Happily
But don't worry, I've got you covered. I've helped over 500 couples revive their marriage. As I said, it's the LAST program you'll need not only to revive your marriage, but to take it to the next level and sustain it.
Once you say "YES" to the Marriage Revival, your marriage will never be the same. I can assure you of that.
So what are you waiting for?! Lets go!!
This is for you if you
- are googling divorce options and may have even uttered the "D word" to your closest friends.
- you rarely "talk" and when you do, it's about schedules, logistics, etc.
- you have no desire for intimacy and the thought of it makes your skin crawl.
- you don't enjoy spending time w/ your partner (and actually make an effort to avoid being with them).
This will help you
- Rebuild to an "I can't imagine life without you" connection to your partner.
- Rekindle the attraction you felt back in your honeymoon days.
- Heal the old hurts, build mutual respect & create a loving marriage that lasts a lifetime.
- Feel more connected to your partner & get back that best friendship you once had.
Here's what you get when you say "YES"
1. Bi-weekly live coaching calls on zoom with Carrie (for women only) and Steve (for men only) alternating weekly between men and women. You will each have 6 calls total. This is where the magic happens. This is not a therapy group, so don't worry, you won't be put on the spot to share your feelings. We'll take the knowledge you are getting from the video training portal and put it into action. You'll be able to ask questions, get clarity, troubleshoot challenges and receive support from me and the group.
2. An expert portal of trainings that are packed with evidence based tools and strategies that will cover everything you need to create a long lasting marriage with a love that lasts a lifetime. Go back to this again and again whenever you desire a tune-up. This is your and your partner's opportunity to work together in the privacy of your own home. Create a weekly ritual for homework and connecting.
3. A private community off social media to keep the momentum going in between calls, receive support, ask questions and work through sticky points. There will be one for men only, women only and a couples community. We want you to have as much support as you need.
4. Weekly homework and action steps to build your toolbox and your confidence. You'll be applying everything you learn, which is an essential ingredient in making changes. You'll always know exactly where to put your focus while your working on your marriage so that you're never floundering or wasting precious time.
What you'll learn inside:
Building Strong Foundations
I'll be walking you through all the essential ingredients that every marriage needs so you build a strong foundation from the ground up.
Communication for Connection
I'll be teaching you my communication framework that will actually bring you two closer together (vs. more distant) so that you can talk about anything.
Navigating Conflict
You'll be introduced to my 5 part framework for navigating every single conflict so that you can use conflict as a way to connect more deeply and not allow it to drive you apart.
Trust & Commitment
I'll be walking you through the steps to build or rebuild trust in your relationship so that you can feel 100% secure in your marriage. Imagine never worrying again.
Love & Intimacy
I'll walk you through all the ways you and your partner can enhance your intimacy so that your love feels deeper and more meaningful than ever.
Attachment Styles in Action
We'll deep dive into everything you need to know about how/why you and your partner relate the way you do and modifying what's not working so that you can be sure you're connecting genuinely on every level possible..
Self-Regulation & Emotional Intelligence
A core element of having constructive discussions and disagreements, we'll strengthen your capacity to deal with stress and you'll learn to neutralize triggers so that emotions stop blinding you from resolving issues that arise.
Divorce Proof
In the end, you'll leave this program feeling confident and secure in creating the marriage that will last a lifetime.
Meet Carrie
I'm so glad you are here and decided to take the first step in reviving your marriage to create a love that lasts a lifetime. I want to assure you that you are in good hands with me.
As a psychotherapist for the past 25 years, I've had the privilege and honor to work with over 1000 women, men and couples who put their trust in me to help them feel better about themselves, their relationships and the life they are living.
While I won't bore you with all of my credentials, I do think it's important for you to know that I have extensive professional training in couples therapy and marriage work. And I've spent the last 15 years of my career specifically honing this part of my craft.
Additionally, my personal experiences also run deep. Married and divorced in my 20's and now celebrating 20 years of marriage with my current husband, it wasn't always easy for me. I had to learn a lot about myself following my divorce in order to prepare myself for another relationship, knowing that I wanted this one to be forever.
My husband and I have had our share of ups and downs; from 3 years of infertility, to job changes, building businesses, parent illness/death, and much more, we've worked through a lot together. We also spent 5 years in marriage therapy to solidify our foundation and work through some real sticky points.
And what I've put together inside the Marriage Revival Accelerator, is everything I wish I would have had and everything I know works with couples packaged in one program. You won't need to fill in with marriage therapy or search for additional resources because I've designed this program so comprehensively in order to meet as many of your needs as possible.
Should you have any questions about me, my training, or my experience or my qualifications, please don't hesitate to reach out to me directly. I know how important it is when you are choosing someone to help you with one of your most valuable assets.
(Pictured is my small, but mighty family - My husband Steven, our daughter Elayna and our two fur babies Gus and Brooke.)
Imagine if
- you and your partner had open honest communication where you could share your thoughts and feelings without judgment.
- you felt so secure and confident in your commitment to one another and trusted each other implicitly with zero second guessing.
- you and your partner had constructive ways to move through conflict while staying connected & respectful, and creating mutual understanding.
- you had that deep friendship again (the one you had in the beginning) and felt so in sync with one another.
- your emotions are heard and you feel seen for exactly who you are and what you need and you never have to be alone in your emotions.
- you love spending time with your partner, are expanded by them and feel a strong attraction again.
This could be your reality after the "Marriage Revival Accelerator"
Testimonial
"Carrie has turned our marriage around. I was ready to file for divorce, but my partner begged me to give our marriage one more try. Carrie made me feel safe, seen and completely understood. She helped us work through the trust that was broken and I can honestly say that our marriage is better than it's ever been. I'm so proud of our marriage."
(To protect the privacy of my clients, all identifying details are kept confidential.)
Testimonial
"I felt like Carrie understood us and what we were dealing with from the beginning. She was able to see what the issues were, what we needed to work and helped us accomplish what we needed in our marriage. I loved how she structured things for us right from the beginning. Knowing where we going was important to both of us."
(To protect the privacy of my clients, all identifying details are kept confidential)
Testimonial
"Carrie showed us what was possible when we were hopeless. We really thought our marriage was over, but once we started working with her, it was clear that the impossible was going to be possible. We had worked with other marriage therapists before, but it didn't help so we had lost all hope that anything could help us."
(To protect the privacy of my clients, all identifying details are kept confidential.)
Are you ready to give your marriage the upgrade it deserves and create a love that lasts a lifetime?
12 Weeks of Mentorship and Coaching to build a strong foundation from the ground up and finally feel the deep connection you long for.
I know it can feel like a push-pull when it comes to investing in yourself. From the time it takes out of your busy life to the financial resources it warrants, these decisions are big ones.
And I remember when my husband and I were embarking on our first piece of work as couple. We had many conversations about where we were going to "find" the time and how we were going to allocate our funds differently so that we could invest in our marriage.
For added flexibility AND to meet you exactly where you are you will have two options for participating.
I have set this group up so that you can join with or without your partner. Many couples want to do the work, but when both partners are not ready or yet bought in, it can cause delays. Therefore, this group is set up to meet your needs either way.
If you would like to join without your partner, you will participate in your coaching calls and also utilize the community support on your own. But you both can do the behind the scenes work from home using the portal of trainings and the action steps. You will still receive an effective transformative experience.
However, if your partner would like to join and participate in coaching calls to enhance the experience while also receiving their own support as an individual and as part of the marriage, you can select the Joint Plan and participate together.
You will also have two investment options:
Pay in full at $2000 for just you and an additional $1000 if your partner is also on board or payment plan at $750 per month for you or $1100 per month for the joint option.
This is where you have a choice
And I'm going to level with you. What kind of marriage do you really want?
Yes you do get to decide that. And if you decide that you want something more and better than what you have now, it's time to take action.
Time DOES NOT heal all wounds. In marriage, passing time compounds existing problems and actually makes circumstances worse.
You may be thinking that starting over with someone new is easier, but unfortunately it's actually much harder. Not only do you bring with you all your "baggage" but now you have to start again to create something new with someone you don't know.
I wholeheartedly believe that if you once were in love with your partner whom you got together for some very important reasons that we'll rediscover, and now you'll GET to bring that back to life.
I know first hand, both from my professional experience, as well as my personal experience, that when you put the effort into your marriage in a very intentional and thoughtful way, and you have the proper strategy with effective tools, you GET to have exactly the kind of marriage you desire.
I know with certainty that the methods I teach couples work! I have witnessed couple after couple transform their marriage and tell me that they "didn't know it could be THIS good."
Yes it can be THAT good! But the choice is yours.
Are you ready?
Let's do this!!
We are ready!
