
From Shutting Down to Finally Enjoying Intimacy Again
If “low libido” has never fully explained your experience, this masterclass will help you understand what may actually be happening.
You may love being close to your husband.
You may enjoy affection when there’s no expectation attached to it.
And still, something can change when a kiss lasts longer, his touch starts moving, or you realize sex might happen.
Maybe you tense.
Maybe you start thinking about where this is going.
Maybe you pull away.
Or maybe the clearest clue is how much you relax once you know intimacy is off the table.
I know how confusing that can be because I lived it in my own marriage for about 15 years, while already working as a psychotherapist.
It’s the experience I now call Intimacy Shutdown.
Why you can love your husband and still shut down around physical intimacy.
Why trying to increase your libido may not change the part of your experience that happens once intimacy becomes possible.
Why your experience can change during intimacy, even when you genuinely wanted closeness when it began.
And what I believe needs to start changing if you want physical intimacy with your husband to feel different.
If Intimacy Shutdown is getting in the way of the physical relationship you want with your husband, and you’re ready to change this pattern, here’s what to do next.
Returning to Love is my program for women who are ready to work on changing Intimacy Shutdown in their marriage.
The next step is to complete a short application and book a 30-minute call with me.
Your application gives me the information I need about what you’re experiencing and helps me make sure Returning to Love is a good fit for you.
The call is for women who are interested in joining an upcoming cohort and ready to get started now, but have a specific question they’d like answered before making their decision.
I’ll review your application before we meet, so when we get on the call, we can focus on your questions and whether Returning to Love is the right next step for you.
If it is, we can get you enrolled in an upcoming cohort.
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