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Question 1 of 10
Which best describes your current state of mind in your marriage?
I constantly replay to-do lists and worries.
I feel the need to micromanage everything.
I am always on edge and can't relax.
I frequently doubt if I married the right person.
Question 2 of 10
How do you usually react when your partner makes mistakes?
I overanalyze the situation and worry about it.
I get frustrated because things aren't perfect.
I feel anxious and fear things are slipping out of control.
I question if they are the right partner for me.
Question 3 of 10
What's your biggest concern in your marriage?
Not being able to stop overthinking about everything he does.
When everything is not perfect I can't relax.
I'm constantly feeling anxious (and my husband can feel my energy)
I second guess and doubt my decisions and my partner.
Question 4 of 10
How do you feel during intimate moments with your partner?
My mind races with other thoughts like what I have to do later or the project I'm completing at work.
I notice all the imperfections - like how his breath smells, if his nails were trimmed, etc
I actually feel too anxious to enjoy it. I can't relax.
I question if the lack of connection I have in the moment means I'm in the wrong marriage.
Question 5 of 10
What do you think is the main reason for disconnection in your marriage?
My overactive mind that keeps my in my head all the time.
My need for everything to be perfect or just right. Sometimes I feel like Goldilocks!
My constant state of worry. It's always there about something.
My habit of second-guessing everything.
Question 6 of 10
How do you handle disagreements with your husband?
I overthink every detail of the argument, going back through everything that happened making sure I have the facts straight.
I get upset because things are not being handled right between us.
I actually feel anxious and fear losing control. Something I absolutely despise.
The arguments send me into a spiral of questioning if we are right for each other.
Question 7 of 10
What's your approach to daily tasks and responsibilities in and out of your home?
They're always on my mind & I overthink and worry about them constantly.
I strive for (near) perfection in everything. I know my standards are really high.
I feel anxious about getting everything done. I've always got a running to do list in my mind.
I second-guess my decisions and actions. For some reason I can't tune into my gut or intuition.
Question 8 of 10
How do you feel about your partner's flaws?
I overanalyze them. I can't stop thinking about them when they appear.
I get annoyed because it's just another sign that he's not doing it right.
I feel anxious and fear they will cause problems for us.
I question if he is the right person for me. I don't know how we could be so different.
Question 9 of 10
What's your biggest obstacle in expressing love to your husband?
I can't stop overthinking so its impossible to be present.
I focus too much on imperfections. His flaw really bug me.
I feel too anxious most of the time.
I second-guess my feelings and actions.
Question 10 of 10
How do you feel about the future of your marriage?
I worry about it constantly. I'm thinking about what it's going to be like if we continue on this path.
I fear it won't be as perfect of a life as I had dreamed of.
I feel anxious about what might happen. Will he get so tired of me that he'll call it quits? Or will I just be unable to stay?
I have so many doubts that we'll be able to make it.